My 3 most rottenest of traits

OMG, not another serious one! One that requires thought! Gosh, this "coming up with posts of substance" stuff is hard work. Day 24 is your top three worst traits. But wait! I thought blogging was about making everyone believe you're perfect!  Oops. Not if you're taking part in the Blog Every Day In May Challenge, it's not. Muhahaha.

So.... what are my top 3 worst traits?

Easy.

1. I am lacking in discipline and a chronic procrastinator. People often advise me to make lists, since it "feels so good to check them off." But for me, if it's on a list of things I need to do, I will automatically do everything else I can find to do except the things on the list. It would probably be more effective if I made a To Do list of things I shouldn't do, because, ipso facto, I would then maybe do the things I should. It's confusing, being me.

2. I am argumentative. If I hear someone say something I believe to be false in any capacity, my nature does not allow me to sit idly by without arguing. Poor Matthew receives the brunt of this personality trait. Apparently it's very annoying. On that note, I am also bossy. Or as I prefer to put it, a born dictator leader.

3. I am selfish. I like things my way, and I'm not a very good sharer. I don't typically put others first. I know some amazingly selfless people, and I marvel at their goodness, but I am not, intrinsically, one of them. I will not share my last bit of ice cream with you. I will forget to send you a card for your birthday. I will get too busy with my own endeavors to ask you about yours. But I'm getting better about this, little by little. I don't like this about myself, and that's the first step to reform, I hope.

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Blog Every Day In May - Day 24

1.	Arni: A Work in Progress	103.	Coffee, Yoga and Life's Other Necessities	205.	Going Fly Fishing- For Complements
2.	Casey @ Poodleism	104.	Sasha D says "Come judge with me"	206.	Meredith @ Adventures in Awkwardness
3.	Rachel @ tossing the script- focus and road rage	105.	Kat @ Cheshire Kat blog	207.	Mary Loves
4.	Rachel @ trying for sighs	106.	Sarah @ Life As Always	208.	Sarah @ Margarita Rambles
5.	Becoming Me: True Grit	107.	Samantha @3Oh1 Grace	209.	Liane@ForThoseLittleMoments
6.	Brooke @ Who Moved My Cheesecake?	108.	Vanessa @ Here Comes the Human	210.	my husband's perspective @ this organic life
7.	Justine @ I'm a Lily bit Different	109.	All about me, staring and what?	211.	Yekta
8.	Jenn@Going the Distance	110.	Cassie @ Sage- I am Flawed.	212.	I've never seen your favorite movie@ISpySomethingB
9.	Pinky The Lazy Judgmental Grudge Holder	111.	Only 3?	213.	Sarah S. @ Random thoughts & feelings
10.	The Worst	112.	What's Not To Like?!	214.	Poke The Rock: juggling elephants
11.	Bat shit crazy@ Teaberry Trails	113.	Debbie @ Deliciously Inspired-I'm Only Human	215.	Worst Traits
12.	Bonnie Rose @ A Compass Rose - Blogger Traits	114.	You mean I'm not perfect?! @Pursuit of Lyndsy	216.	The Good, the Bad, the Ugly - $nyders Tell All
13.	Shannon @ Milk and Cookies	115.	I'm awesome.	217.	Emma @ Outmumbered
14.	Caley @ Ellie Love	116.	And I Was Like No.	218.	Niquelle @ Paper Plane
15.	Vaida @ Don't Tell Anyone Arts	117.	Part time holy bachelor @ under over project	219.	(Not) perfect @Bidawee Forest
16.	Kara @ The Snugly Duckling	118.	Lianne @ L U L A B E L L E	220.	Nadia@ Rue du chat qui peche
17.	Bailie @ The Hemborg Wife	119.	Jesse @ Wooden It Be Nice	221.	Laura--You mean I'm not perfect??
18.	a beautiful little fool, best thing a girl can be	120.	Hard 2 Love	222.	Nic @ Our Little Balham Life
19.	Crystal Del @ Seoul Sold	121.	Hilary @ Pearls & Hoses	223.	SO judging myself in this one :)
20.	Stacey - improvised intentions	122.	Slap it in the face	224.	The ugly side of Notably Neurotic
21.	A life Among others	123.	Courtney @ Life Well Expected	225.	Top Three @ Oh, Travels
22.	Jennifer @ Part of THat World	124.	lori @ a crazy walk on the safe side	226.	Jenn @ Hello Gutentag
23.	michmash: YOUR MOM GOES TO COLLEGE	125.	Catherine @ Life in the Big State of Texas	227.	May 24: 3 Worst - Ellen Donner
24.	Jessica from My Baby Birds	126.	Holly @ The Grass is Always Greener	228.	Ashleigh @ French Vanilla, Extra Extra
25.	Val @ The Daily Distraction	127.	*sings* who you are	229.	Angie @ Swell Simplified Life
26.	Elyse @ My Life with a Cherry on Top	128.	I'm A Horrible Person	230.	karissa@A Fresh Start
27.	@JLenniDorner Does my darkside have cookies	129.	Ashley @ Monograms and Margaritas	231.	Erin @ Read, Eat, Create - My Ugly Traits
28.	I am Loner; But I'm Sorry!	130.	CoffeeGrounded	232.	Some Things I Need to Work On
29.	Sarah @ The Quixotic Chica	131.	We Can Only Pick 3??	233.	Cristy S @ My Own Personal Stage
30.	Sarah @ One Sweet Tuesday	132.	Monica @ BlessedMamaof2	234.	Victim to the Netflix Trap
31.	Megan @ Neither Here Nor There	133.	Procrastinating is my forte? @Sweet Little Gals	235.	Claire @ The Secret Notebook
32.	My Life As...	134.	Meghan @ More from Meg	236.	Joelynn @ BRIGHTLIGHTS (3 not so fondest traits)
33.	Kathryn @ The Adventures of Kathryn	135.	Chloe @ Rainbows & Honeysuckle	237.	Katrynka's Weyr
34.	Cat @ One Non Blonde: What's Your Damage?	136.	Holier than thou.. mwahah haa ha ha ha h	238.	Jasmine @ Jasmine and Sean
35.	Please don't read this @ andiamo	137.	Bri | Mamages | A "Real Woman"	239.	Courtney @ Sweet Turtle Soup :: The Worst
36.	Meg@YammeringYankee	138.	Kathleen @ Places I Will Go	240.	Melissa @ Two Miracles
37.	Hayley @ Middle Class Mamas - I lost my keys ...	139.	GIVEAWAY & Awful traits	241.	GMClementine - to be bored
38.	Mel's Corner: The ugly truth	140.	Stacey @ Grace Believer	242.	Flawed @ Happily Ever After
39.	Kairen @ Not Perfect .3 things I dislike about me	141.	Emily @ Jolie Emily	243.	Alive and Livin': Undecided
40.	View and 3 worst traits	142.	WHY I SUCK or WHY I'M EVIL @ Dandelion Dreams	244.	Reasons I am the Worst
41.	Look! A puppy! @ The Kat Almanac	143.	fresh hot donuts here!!!	245.	Procrastination, juggling, no simplicity @ GWG
42.	One marshmallow now instead of two later@shoebox	144.	Annie @ Je Serai Etre	246.	SmilngOnTheSand ~ Say It Ain't So
43.	Traits not 'trays' @ Lilybett and Boy	145.	Melissa @ MelissaDishes	247.	Dari @ Dolcemusing 3 WORST TRAITS !
44.	Dawnelle @ Just Dawnelle	146.	Spitting's a trait, right??	248.	Kimberly @Inspirefly
45.	Practical Perfect in Every Way, Not	147.	LaShawn @ March to December | NOT SO TOP 3	249.	Rachel: I'm not perfect, but I'm adorable!
46.	Diana Fernandez@ creationsforastar	148.	Caroline @ See Cat Run	250.	PROCRASTINATION
47.	Life of TOI - My 3 Not So Nice Traits	149.	Megalin @ My Random Lovelies	251.	Regan @ Charmed Stamping
48.	ClassyFabSarah - Worries	150.	LaTache is Smiling	252.	Jessica @ Daddy's On Call
49.	Nadine @ Life by Nadine Lynn	151.	Leanne - Messy, a bad caller, Stubborn as a BULL	253.	Yasmein@She's Facing Freedom - 3 Worst Traits
50.	ilene @ muchloveilly	152.	Eliza @ BabyBound	254.	Jess @ Umbrella's and Lipstick (crappy traits)
51.	Laura @ Farm Girl in MD	153.	Denise@Alifelesstraveled	255.	Ashley @ A Fox & A Wolf
52.	Alyssa @ Sweet Shangrila	154.	Hope @ a cup of Hope	256.	The Cryton Chronicles - Day 24
53.	Sarah @ Run Shop Eat Repeat	155.	Kim-Expectations, Criticize and on and on	257.	My worst and I don't think I can correct them
54.	Nikki @ Angels of Heart - Don't ask the Family	156.	Kay @ its me KTT	258.	Betty @ Losing My Gut
55.	Dear Saul - My Worst Traits	157.	Morgan. M&MH// Impulsive, impatient and a blamer.	259.	Laura @ Pieces of love
56.	Eva @ Snappee Turtle (90 Percenter)	158.	Casey @ Stress Case	260.	3 worst
57.	Fi's Daily Ponderings - Just three bad things	159.	I want people to like me too much	261.	Susanne @ susanne is me
58.	Nicole @ Treasure Tromp	160.	Sarah @ Crooked Stripes	262.	Stephanie @ Life, Unexpectedly
59.	Heather Ann @ Every Girl Like Me	161.	Julie @ The Jort Report	263.	the bad & ugly -Casey
60.	Kelsea@Overwhelmed by Grace	162.	Miranda @ Aimless Translation	264.	Malo @ The Daily Frenchie
61.	ouch!	163.	Justine @ Sleepy Single Girl	265.	At My Worst
62.	Mary-andering Creatively	164.	Kaitlyn @ [[Downtown on Main]]	266.	Second Thoughts
63.	{Enthusiatic Bitz of Life} I'm not perfect?	165.	Deliberate/illiterate	267.	Trinity @ Ramsay Grace My 3 Worst Traits
64.	chels @ LLinaBC - please don't judge too harshly..	166.	Samantha @ life is but a stream of thoughts	268.	I kind of suck
65.	Alana @ Life & Times of the Intelligent Blonde	167.	I'm argumentative. If you're wrong.@JordaninPearls	269.	If I have a fault @ Foppish Drunk
66.	Lauren--Red, White, and Becoming Mrs. Rice	168.	Brittany- Jealous, Selfish, and Judgmental	270.	Liz @ lovely life
67.	Pass the chocolate before someone gets hurt.	169.	Krystal @ Pressing Pause	271.	3 Worst Traits (Amy @ Many the Miles)
68.	Claire @DaisyBisley 3 Most Annoying Traits	170.	Nino @ Text Sketches - My 3 worst traits	272.	The dictionary definition of...
69.	Laura	171.	Eloquent Rambles-Follows Back and Low #'s	273.	Katelyn @ Love in Lufkin
70.	Erica Ashley-Faith, Hope, Love	172.	Pink to Pieces - Blog Cheating: I Work Out	274.	Karissa @ The Start of The Shaws
71.	Ashley // 3 Things I Hate About Me	173.	EJ - I am a mean insecure person. LOVE ME!	275.	Flaws
72.	Tiffany Ima @ Style Honestly	174.	Chelsea @ Life is a Sunset	276.	Jac @ My Ugly-Side
73.	Sue // As It Seems	175.	Let's be a little more positive on a Friday!	277.	Beth @ E Lizard Breath Speaks
74.	I bite my nails!	176.	Tales, stories, and poetry blog	278.	ryan gosling + rotten traits.
75.	Laura @ The Life We've Imagined	177.	Amanda = self indulgent, selfish, and critical	279.	if i have to - jwhitneynic
76.	Jenessa @ Daydreams and Gerber Daisies	178.	Nannette @ Oh, Woe Is Me!!	280.	Maureen @SheisMoments ugh
77.	Love Woke Me Up	179.	Perfectionist pink pixie dust	281.	Em @ Em's The Boss
78.	Elena @ Elena's Lockets	180.	Michaela @ Chasing Extraordinary	282.	3 Undesirables
79.	HappySappy: The worstest	181.	Ashlee @ Redeemed Runner - Chosen	283.	From the Heart
80.	Teresa @ The Adventures of Teresa and Luna	182.	ChrystinaNoel, oh so stubborn	284.	my 3
81.	Well, my husband says ...	183.	kayleigh @thewayiwanderlust - 3 horrible traits	285.	Jessica @ ohsoantsy 3 things I wish weren't true)
82.	zoo trip & exposing myself	184.	Kailagh @ Love Always, Freckles	286.	Brittany - Figuring it out
83.	I suck	185.	Things I Need to Work On @ A Life of Curls	287.	Nina - Day 24 & 25 ~ Bad Habits and Insults
84.	Nicole @ Life's a Beach	186.	Diane @ My Own Little Corner of the World	288.	Samara- I will drive you bonkers!
85.	The 24th Gauntlet	187.	Erika @ CHiMERiKAL.com - "Self-Bullying"	289.	Danielle @ 21 Weeks
86.	Alana- Shhhhhhhh	188.	The Procastinating Stubborn Indecisive Girl ... Hi	290.	liz @ try On Life
87.	Some Sucky Stuff About Me @After April	189.	Indecisive + Immoderate + Impatient	291.	Wildali @ The De Jesus Family
88.	Annmarie @ Simply Swift!	190.	row @ designsbyrow	292.	elizabeth @ chronic venture
89.	Coordinated Kate	191.	the top three | paintchipmadness	293.	Simply A - Playing Catch Up!
90.	Jess @ All-American Jess	192.	Carrie - I'll do it (tomorrow)	294.	Sarah @ Crooked Stripes
91.	No one's perfect! @between here&there	193.	Belle Will Reply to Your Email Next Month	295.	Olivia @ olivia irwin
92.	Cause Nobody's Perfect	194.	Kristin @ Crown Jewells	296.	Betty @ Unscripted Journey
93.	Lindsay @ BarefootandNostalgic	195.	The Yuppie Files	297.	Miranda @ The Pebble Pond
94.	The Ugly Side of Me	196.	I'm Sorry I'm too Stubborn to say I'm Sorryy	298.	Ambercanread's bad habits (procrastination!)
95.	Teh Megan @ can I decide another day? {worsts}	197.	Mimi's worst traits - Love Life + Nicosia	299.	A Catch-Up - Oops
96.	Rachel @ life in the moment	198.	Kim @ Olive Juice On A Whim With Kim	300.	teannajean@ Living Life
97.	Jen @ wonderfullyunkempt	199.	Admit it	301.	my 3 worst traits @ Cupcake & Whiskey
98.	Gwen @ Confessions of a Gila Monster	200.	Rebeccah Writes - Bad, Worse, Worst	302.	PrincessPanoply @top 3 worst traits
99.	Salipa @ Life By My Mind	201.	Pick Only Three, by Meghan Sara	303.	summer love
100.	Boone+Owl: The Worst Of It	202.	Melissa - Day 24: Worst Traits	304.	KristenHead's 3 Worst Traits
101.	Emily @ Be Blessed, Y'all!	203.	Samantha @ Everyday With S&J
102.	Carolyn @ life, love & puppy prints	204.	Elise @ Three B's.

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